Who is the boss, your ego or your hart?

Who is the boss, your ego or your hart? If we once knew the influence our ego has on ourselves and our lives and what the ego can do for damage, then we would no longer give the ego a chance. It is only so difficult to recognize the ego. For the ego has devious ways to keep us away from the love for ourselves and others.

How do you recognize your ego?
Recognizing the ego and making it small is a daily, often unconscious activity. Even a small single sentence that pronounces another can already be food for the ego. You have a certain feeling with that phrase. If the relationship with the other person is not the right connection, the ego will determine the feeling. We do not notice this and thus give our own ego every chance of struggle, intimidation, manipulation, jealousy and not giving the other something.

As long as we are not aware when the ego speaks, or our hearts, it is difficult to hold ourselves. Then we are often led by others instead of by ourselves. We are naturally generous, loving, and there is no harm in it. We start our lives in fact egoless.

Time goes by
As we grow older, and grow up, it begins. The way in which parents and others speak to and interact with children evokes a certain emotion and feeling. Parents have learned from their parents and the environment and that has given them a way of life. Is this way loving, positive, constructive, the ego gets less chance. If the way is more focused on the negative, pointing to the other what that error does instead of good, then the ego gets the chance to assert itself.

Recognize your ego
Do not allow the ego of yourself and another person to lead your life and keep an eye on when your own ego speaks and when your heart speaks. This is difficult and spicy and many of you who seek contact with helpers working on the spiritual help line www.mediumchat.org, have to do with the ego. Because if you seek help, you have ended up in a situation where you may not have asked for yourself, but you are confronted with it and you no longer get out of it and therefore seek answers and insights. Glad that the possibility exists, in the form of spiritual support on www.mediumchat.org.

The spiritual helpers of www.mediumchat.org will help you always with recognizing your ego voice. How do you recognize the ego and the heart now? How do you know when the ego takes the word? If there is a struggle, if jealousy is involved. If you do not like the other person. Then you just know for sure that the ego is talking. Love knows no struggle, knows no jealousy and love gives everything to everyone, including yourself.

Give everybody the best, so you also give it to yourself
So give the ego no chance and give everyone the best. But I already do that and the other person does not like me! That is possible, then keep giving the other everything, but set a limit. The border you set is then from the heart, lovingly you say goodbye or distance from the other person.

Your hart is in control
So you do not let your ego control you and the ego of the other person can't touch you anymore. This gives incredible peace and emotional stability. As a matter of course you will live differently, react differently. As a matter of course, you are immediately aware of whether your ego is taking over from you and are sending you. You live your life from that moment on yourself and from the hart. You don't want to learn how to master this than with a medium of www.mediumchat.org.

Loving greeting, medium Von mediumchat.org 

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Datum: 07-02-'19

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