Domestic Violence, Psychic Style

Verbal abuse isn’t the only trick some psychics use to keep clients coming back to them.
They also isolate clients, ensuring they won’t go to another psychic. I’ve known psychics who will threaten other psychics if their “demands” don’t get met – that is, to keep the client all to themselves. On one memorable occasion, I even had a psychic send in a client purposely to give me a low rating so that particular psychic wouldn’t lose any more traffic to me!
This is not the norm; I probably should have said that already. But it isn’t uncommon for psychics to hear about other readers who refuse to share readers, and who have outright bullying tactics to keep clients with them.
Why does it work?

I think it works because psychics love their clients and vice versa. As with any love relationship, however, things can get twisted over time if misunderstandings pile up. Never doubt that there are passive aggressive psychics out there who will take their failures – or more often, the failures of their clients to listen to their advice, a topic I’ll go into in more depth in my next blog – out on the client themselves in ways subtle, and at times, not so subtle. Suddenly charging more, or demanding the client send large sums of money because all of a sudden, this psychic, who had never before believed in curses, now claims “dark energy” surrounds their client and must be removed for an exorbitant sum are ways for psychics to do this.
Passing judgment where only acceptance applied before is a common tactic with some psychics. In my mind, not passing judgment is mandatory. If and where any given psychic judges you for any part of yourself or tries to change what you identify as a sex (or don’t, as is your right), or who you love, worship, or even spend your time with, that is wrong, and should never be tolerated.
Yet clients do sometimes tolerate it. They come to those of us with no agenda other than to help in fear, worried that there are going to be massive and horrific repercussions for their daring to go outside their “relationship” with another psychic to consult and see if someone can’t be a little kinder, for a change.
And then they go back to that same abusive psychic.

As with domestic abuse, we can’t prevent someone from thinking that their psychic will change and become the person they used to be back in the beginning. But we do try. Sometimes we succeed, and that’s what keeps us going.
There is punishment for the psychic who practices domestic abuse, and plenty of it. Word gets out. Not just among psychics, who often refer a potential client they can’t connect with themselves to another reader, but also to clients, which is the most important word of mouth at all.
If and when you are unfortunate enough to hear such a thing about a psychic, it’s up to you what to do. Rumors can often be just that, so I’m not encouraging word of mouth alone to sway you away from any given psychic. Yet if you do visit a psychic who tries to isolate you, claims you are cursed, or tries to sway you from being exactly who you are, you need to leave and let others know so they won’t fall into the trap you just neatly avoided.

© Leah  

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Datum: 17-01-'18

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