No words, but acts we need

No words, but acts we need. You start dating and wow, you feel so much butterflies in your stomach. You want the other so badly, you see so much potential in the other. You totally forget to look at his acts. The other says so many nice things, yoy believe everything. That the other forget an appointment, doesn't matter. That the other works very hard and has no time to spend with you, no problem. That the other is lying because you find out after a couple of months that the other is stil in a relationship, you forgive.

We want a relation too badly
We all want a relationship in which words are translated into action. You yourself live like that and expect that from the other. After all, you enter into a relationship with someone and can therefore expect the other person to stand behind the commitment and make a commitment to it. Love can make blind. So blind that we don't notice in the beginning, completely ignore that the other says a lot, but does not turn it into an action. Often we only find out if we have already given our whole heart to the other person and have not checked whether the other person is committed to the relationship in the right way. Also gives his whole heart.

We get doubts, but no action
At such moments, doubt begins to strike, but the annoyance also comes into play. Often we start a chat with a spiritual helper. If I can give you advice in this, chat with consultants from www.mediumchat.org, who will provide you with honest and reliable answers. We want to know if the person with whom we have committed ourselves will show up, in such a way that we feel that the other person is also going to act in the right way. That the other person is going to stick to the words, which sounded so beautiful at first, but which did not end up in practice.

A wake up chat
Slowly the realization comes in dripping that of all those beautiful words, not much is correct. And not much is fulfilled. Then you become angry, disappointed and blame the other. A very normal reaction. The other promises you everything, has excuses why he still can't make it happen and you wait patiently. But something in you says, something is not right, and you want to know what it is. You want to know why the other drops you now and dangles on a string? You start a chat with a consultant from www.mediumchat.org.

The consultant tells you that you have met somebody who suffers from high-mindedness. A person who sees love as a playground. You do not believe your ears, because your image of this person is completely different. How is it that the consultant says this about your loved one and you do not recognize yourself in it? You have formed an image on the basis of the words and that image must be realized. You haven't looked who the other really is. The consultant you chat with on www.mediumchat.org has indeed seen it well, but from your own blindness and naivety you have fallen with open eyes for this nice person. The words are beautiful, but the acts are horrible.

What to do now
Although you didn't want to hear what the medium told you at first, you now also see that you have gone too fast, giving your heart to someone who does not take love so seriously as you do. You are pleased with the insights of the consultants of www.mediumchat.org. You decide to look at the other from a distant, not angry, or without grief. Because you want to know for sure the other only speek out words and no acts.

After a while you see that the other don't take any responibility for his acts and you have the guts to tell the other you will end the relationship. The other doesn't understand it al all. Luckely you understand what is the best for you, thanks to the chat with a medium on www.mediumchat.org.

Kind regards, Von mediumchat.org

Datum: 16-02-'19

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