Can you cut ties with a soulmate or twinflame?

Can you cut ties with a soulmate or twinflame? Everyone who has experienced a soulmate or twinflame relationship knows how hard it can be. Especially if your soulmate or twinflame keeps running away, also being called 'the runner'. You can feel their energies telepathically, and also feel their pain, sadness and insecurities. It's hard on most people and they would give anything to just let go.

Some people will let healers or psychics break the ties, or try it themselves, only to find out that it doesn't work. Your soulmate or twinflame is part of you, and therefore you can never break this bond you have together. It's the same as your ego, it's part of you, and some days it's more present than other days, but still it's part of who you are.

Of course there are methods in order to let go. But you need to see and understand what's it all about. You only have one twinflame and you can have many soulmates, friends and family can be soulmates as well.

Your soulmate or twinflame crosses your path because you need to learn from him/her, as he/she does from you. He/she is like a mirror, and you both need to learn the lesson of self-worth. How much do you love yourself. You can experience the feeling of coming Home with each other. And when your soulmate or twinflame starts to pull away, it can be very draining and confusing.

The only thing you can do is to keep working on yourself, is by loving yourself more. To put yourself first, and to tell your soulmate, twin what you need from him/her. To stand IN your own power, and setting some bounderies. To not take everything personally, because your soulmate or twin has his or her own process, and resists Unconditional Love, because he or she doesn't have enough self-love in their heart yet.

If you are busy, and aren’t thinking of your soulmate/twin, and this feeling overwhelms you, like sadness, fear or insecurities, it's almost always from your soulmate or twinflame. You can "grab" this feeling and visualize it moving through your body, down to your feet and into Mother Earth. Ask Mother Earth to ground and cleanse this energy into Love.

You can also surround yourself with a golden/white sphere of Light. And talk to the Soul of your soulmate or twinflame. Telling him or her that you are no longer taking on their karmic lessons (fears, sadness etc.), but you are going to let him or her go, from Unconditional Love, so you can both learn your lessons in life.

If you like, you can ask archangel Michael to cut the ties a bit, so at least you are able to function again. No Angel or Lightmaster will ever break the bonds completely, because that will not be in accordance with your Free Will, and the life lessons you have chosen from your Soul, with your soulmate and/or twinflame, before you incarnated on Earth.

Over time you will notice that letting go has become easier. Because you yourself have grown a lot. There will be phases where you will think a lot of your soulmate or twinflame, but you are now able to ground these energies. And you can also distinguish your own emotions, from theirs.

You will learn to let go of expectations you have from them. He or she no longer needs to fill up that huge hole in your heart, and you are allowed to go your own way. You are not longer dependant on them for love, or to feel happy in life. You also realize you are not responsible for their happiness either, and no longer need to feel guilty.

Letting go is a process, everyone has their own pace. It also depends if it's a strong soulmate, twinflames are a lot harder to let go off. However you will perservere, and you will make it work. You can't force anyone to learn their life lessons. There is no judgment if you are living from Unconditional Love.

Crystals that can help you in this process are the Rose Quartz or the Kunzite for self-love and the Labradorite for protecting your aura. Gold Topaz for energy and protection, and Lemurian Seed Crystals for grounding, working from your heart energy, and stay connected to your Soul.

© Arlette

Datum: 30-11-'18

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